Real stories

New short film, 'Dekho', shows the impact dementia has on families and carers

This World Alzheimer's Month, we’ve been working with writer, director and actor Manjinder Virk to share the story of one family whose lives have been changed by dementia.

Showing how dementia reshapes lives

Through the eyes of a young boy, the film, ‘Dekho’, explores how dementia can reshape family relationships, caring responsibilities and communication across generations.

For families like the one portrayed in this film, a dementia diagnosis should be a lifeline. It can be the first step towards understanding what's happening, accessing support and planning for the future.

Yet one in three people living with dementia still don't have a diagnosis.

A dementia diagnosis can bring answers and understanding after months or even years of uncertainty. But diagnosis must be the beginning of support, not the end of the conversation.  

There isn’t enough support for carers

Manjinder, the film’s creator, says:

‘One of the hardest things has been navigating the support and care system.  

It often feels as though people don't receive help quickly enough. I don't just mean asking for help. I mean that the support structures for people with dementia and their carers simply aren't strong enough.  

‘I remember taking my mum to A&E, and it was one of the worst experiences I've ever had. There was very little in place to support someone living with dementia in that environment.  

‘I often think about people going through this alone and wonder how they cope. It's difficult even when you have support around you.  

‘There simply isn't enough help for carers.’