Real stories
‘I graduated from university after my dementia diagnosis’
Since his dementia and Parkinson’s diagnoses, Ray Middleton, in the West Midlands, has continued to learn and is about to start studying for a master’s degree.
I’ve got dyslexia but it wasn’t diagnosed until 2010. When I was at school, back in the 60s, it wasn’t even heard of. I was basically written off.
I left school with seven CSEs and off I went into the world of work.
I did various jobs, all sorts of things. I made cabinets, worked on a building site and at a supermarket before I became a lorry driver. Eventually, I set up my own haulage company.
It’s the time-old thing – you want to provide for yourself and your family, so I just put my education to one side.
Why I started studying
The reason I started studying in the first place was that I had a bad accident in the 2010s, which meant I couldn’t drive any more.
My wife Christine said, ‘You can sit there moping as long as you want but it’s not going to do you any good at all.’
I needed to find an outlet and decided to improve my computer skills, and my studying has gone from there!
I used to be a workaholic – all the energy that I used to put into work is going into learning now. I love it. My office wall is chock-full of certificates – everything from health and safety to leadership and logistics.
Receiving a dementia diagnosis
I was diagnosed with dementia around five years ago. I noticed my memory was going. I kept forgetting where I was going and what I was doing.
Later, I also received a diagnosis of Parkinson’s.
It’s not diminished my energy – I have a positive mental attitude and I’d like to think I’m pragmatic.
I started an online degree in business with Arden University before my diagnosis and finished it in 2025.
As well as studying, I’ve helped to set up a support group for people with young-onset dementia in my area. My dementia adviser Elaine and I agreed there was nothing meaningful on offer and we needed to do something. It’s thriving now.
I’m also part of a cancer support group called Let’s Talk Hope in West Bromwich, as I survived a brain tumour over 20 years ago.
Socialising with dementia
I’ve got lots of plans for the future. What can I say? I like being busy. I’d like to increase help and support, especially for those with Parkinson’s disease dementia.
I’m still studying – in fact, I’m about to start a master’s degree in supply chain management and logistics with Arden University.
I always encourage people I meet with dementia to be brave and stay active.
It helps you feel useful and connected, which is really important. You just need to find something that suits you!
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